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Gift Kafuffle.

May 27th, 2008

Sears is so stupid. I won’t go into detail as I’ll start seeing red, but Julia wanted to send a gift and for me to have local pick-up. Otherwise the delievery was about the same as the gift (about $50). Can’t do pick up on gift. Nine million emails later, yes Jenn can do pick up but must produce credit card used to buy gift. Credit card in Bangledesh. Must use credit card, though, as it is an out-of-country purchase.

See the logic puzzle they’ve created here?

Solution (this is after I called them from this end as well as julia emailing from her end) - cancel order, I’ll buy mattress for crib at a local store, julia will give me cash when she’s here next month.

Second part to this solution is me taking my sears gift registry off my blog. I’ve got one on the go at Chicken Little (a cute little local store) and I’m going to The Bay this week to do another one. But really, I’ll be happy if everyone just buys me diapers :) I have emailed my various gift registries so far to mom and she is going to throw me a shower next month. One friend has asked about something “big” I want. I have no clue what to ask for. Any input? And I never know what is “big” - like a BumGenius 3.0 big or like a stroller big?

In other news, I just can’t wait until he can actually fit into some of the diapers. I have a local connection for some prowraps, I think, that are used. She has four prowraps and four bummis and some prefolds. We’ll see how that goes.

Random cat info: Rupert will carry the soother around by the nipple if given the chance. This would seriously compromise the non-air-flowyness of the soother. But it is pretty funny and cute.

Pictures:

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Orange cat says, I might be fighting a losing battle here…

Thanks for all the comments everyone. I’m reading blogs, but usually with a beeb in one arm so comments are rare. I really love reading everything here, and never tire of just hearing that you think he is as cute as I think he is…

xxoo

Life Of Beeb.

May 25th, 2008

I has a bath:

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I made faces:

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I take naps on the couch with the blanket auntie Leone made me:

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I get foods. Many many foods. Nom nom nom:

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And Grandma bought me a new chair. But she stressed that it doesn’t replace grandma snuggle time. To prove this point, I slept on her for no less than three hours this afternoon.

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Oot and aboot. And other things.

May 22nd, 2008

2:30am Report.

Wednesday (yesterday) we all did our first family outing. We went to the doctor’s office for our one week check-up. We were only 20 mintues late. I think that is some kind of newborn record, right? I mean, they factored in for that.. yes?

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We also went to a great little store and got a sling. I love it.. but, I’m not sure about Malcolm’s placement in it. I am not happy with his constriction and worry about air flow. We will fiddle some more tomorrow, and I watched the youtube on how to make him not squished, but we’ll have to see. Look up peanut shell sling to see them. Might I add that EVERYONE ooh’d and ahh’d over beeb everywhere we went?

Then we went to London Drugs where we picked up ALL their stock of the formula we’re using since to date this is the only place in town that carries the one we use. Formula is interesting. You first get the brand, then you get their particular “formula” of formula, then you get the format. So I don’t know how this brand manages to get on with the hospital, but well done company, well done. I mean, hey I was writing down what we used at the hospital and you can bet your shiney red wagon I was going to find the same. That’s the brand, then the formula. This is the one with iron (duh - what’s up with the low iron?) and the omegas. Check. Then the format - this one is the Ready To Serve. Reason being that the powder is not guarenteed to be sterilized. No biggy according to the LC if all things are equal (she was nicely on board with me re: over sterilization etc), but given Mal is a preemie - we’re doing some extra precautions until his birth date. There is also the concentrate (add boiling water), but right now I don’t want the extra step for pretty much the exact same price.. thanks very much anyhoo.

So all stores have the brand. All stores have ready to eat. All stores have a version of the omega/iron combo. Only one store so far has all three together.

So I bought every single packet (sets of four cans) from the shelf.

Have I talked about boob feeding yet?

As a preemie, little Malcolm had some issues with eating. He was thinking he had a free ride still for another four weeks. Breastfeeding was not good. Plus, I have some milk issues given that I had the breast reduction. Now, I’m producing milk (go boobs go!) but not enough. Combo all this - two frustrating days and Mal losing weight.

No boob Nazis. No horrible pressure. Some conflicting info depending who was on shift, but all in all we went to finger feeding via a tube some formula to suppliment. We still tried the boob, but it wasn’t happening.

So I also started some meds to up my milk production - domperidon (sp?) and bought the mother of all breast pumps (is it okay that even with the discount hospital rate and no tax the $180 made me cry a little?) but I wanted to get some boob milk into my little guy. And Jim has supported me all along with whatever route I wanted to take. He also watched carefully for anyone putting pressure on me.

Now at home we are pumping throughout the day and feeding as much breastmilk as possible with forumla as top-up. I say the formula as top-up, but truth be known the formula is the greater amount of the two. I read some women talk about the frustration of pumping and only getting 1.5/2 oz a session. I pump for 30 minutes (15 each side) and do the snoopy dance of joy to get an ounce. I call out things like “look at what lefty managed today! Good job little lefty!” (Lefty has been a bit behind in all this.) Then I turn to my powerhouse, my saviour in all this pumping, the boob that will get it done. And righty will take the 15minute teaspoon worth of pumping from Lefty and turn it into a solid 30 or even 40 ml. Meeting and possibly exceeding that 1 oz mark!

But it is hard to keep pumping and seeing so little results. I hope to increase the number of pumps and maybe spur on greater results the next few days. Keep you all posted ;)

And I love the japanese inspired Monster Lizard Rupert comments, and yes we’re calling him Mal as well as Malcolm. xxoo

Beeb’s first knitting with auntie Leone:

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What he does when we try to breast feed:

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Snuggling with daddy:

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Napping with grandma:

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Day One

May 20th, 2008

2:30am report.

Tomorrow (today?) will be day one SMOAL.

Sans Mom or Auntie Leone.

Leone had to go back to Vancouver for her whole job/graduation/career goals and mom is back to work after a long weekend. This puts me and Jim on our own for tomorrow’s shift! Of course, one might point out that mom might come over on her lunch break (we’re a ten minute walk from her school) and then after work before her bridge club (I did offer that she could take the baby to bridge, she seemed to really consider it for a while) and that dad is coming over around 11am to help Jim run some errands.

WE”RE TOTALLY ON OUR OWN!

Yeah, we’re totally spoiled.

Pappa Jim did his first fully solo shift tonight - and he was wonderful. I headed off to be just before 9pm and got to sleep until 1:30am. This is the longest stretch so far and it was amazing! Add to that the 8am-? (11ish?) sleep this morning and the hour long nap Jim and I got to take TOGETHER when Mom and Leone were here this afternoon and I am practically giddy with awakness right now. Jim had a shift that saw some feedings, some demands for cuddles, and some beeb poop that was, in Jim’s words, noteworthy in amount and explosivity.

But they both made it through with flying colours. We’re already missing leone, but we’re so glad she could come home this weekend. And auntie Julia will be here in just a few short weeks!

We are the luckiest new parents to have so much love for the beeb - both family based and friend based. Thanks to everyone for their comments here and on the WD and in email and Facebook.

Malcolm with his blanket from his auntie Julia:

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Rupert says, ‘they keep removing me from my new bed even though I watch over and protect the beeb!”

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Especially from the evil mobile:

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Beeb loves sleeping on his grandma with his blanket made by his auntie Leone:

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Crying of beeb, so I must go!

xxoo

Hi Everyone!

May 18th, 2008

We’re home! I’m not able to sit for too too long (ooch) but am trying to get around and say a quick hi and let everyone know we’re all good. We were at the hospital a bit longer than expected, but everything is good, and we’re so glad to be home.

Mom and dad and Auntie Leone have been helping like crazy so the house is ready for beeb. Or, if you would like his other name - Malcolm Phineas. And here we are. A few more pictures, much love, and an update - no doubt- in the next day or so.

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Beeb!!!

May 14th, 2008

*much ecstatic bouncing up and down of Bears*

Beeb was born last night, May 13, at 9:16–a month early but still weighing in at a solid 6 pounds, 10 ounces! Baby Boy and Mom are both doing great.

Beeb still doesn’t have a name other than Beeb, as Jenn and Jim thought they had another month to figure that out.

Beeb catching some rays on the baby warming thingie

Beeb and Mom resting the following morning

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May 13th, 2008

Either I just peed myself multiple times in multiple puddles… or I think my water is in the process of breaking.

I HAD PLANS TODAY!

My class is supposed to start today.  I should be going to the hospital, but I seem to be in denial.  Yeah, I’m heading out in a few minutes. No bag packed. No carseat installed. No crip set up.

But my syllabus is printed and stapled and my course is ready.

Beeb Report

May 11th, 2008

In previous posts, my growing belly. And so, some more.

For comparison, 26 weeks:

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28 Weeks:

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30Weeks:

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32 Weeks:

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33 Weeks:

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34 Weeks taken by my auntie shirl (I think her camera makes me look bigger than I am, although others assure me this is how huge I’ve become):

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35 weeks (this pictures kinda confirmed it might not be the cameras, but me):

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Yeah, I think I’ve kinda exploded with beeb the last two/three weeks.

Teaching a 6 hour course.

May 9th, 2008

As mentioned below, I will be teaching from 8:30am-2:20pm three days a week (for three weeks) starting next week. This will be interesting on a number of levels. First, that will take me to the END of week 38 pregnancy wise. Yes, I have a few back-up people arranged. Second, this will be the longest class I’ve ever taught. I’ve done three week intensives other summers but the timing was kinder (a WMST one last summer - wow, was that really only one year ago - but we scheduled it on four mornings rather than three days thus meaning no need for a lunch break and making the day significantly shorter). Third, oh I forgot my third point.

So I have broken the class up into just over an hour long sections. Section one, coffee break, section two, coffee break, section three, lunch hour, last section. I quite like 60-70 minute sections. That seems to max out the attention spans without entering the glazed portion of the show.

Again, interesting as I’ve never taught four classes in one day - which is what this pretty much comes out to be. So I am doing very much what Kim mentioned in her comment yesterday - share the work!

Section one: lecture. I will talk, they will write, they will feel they’ve been “Instructed”. As much as I try to drill it into students that active learning gives them more skills, they learn as much, and they learn with less pain and wasted time - students want to be lectured to and to take notes. I continually get the feedback “but how do I study for this test as there are no notes!” and I ask if they could write a three page long reply about the use of the hero’s journey to explore notions of childhood transforming into adulthood/maturity in three of the texts we covered and they say ‘yes, no problem’ and I say ‘well that’s the whole point!’ But they still want notes. It doesn’t matter that they learned the components of the Hero’s Journey by actually tracing it out in our multiple examples and in group work and in our discussions. They are worried because they don’t have a page of notes on it. So you know what, each morning I”ll give them some notes - but that is it! Plus it will cut down on the late wanderers or at least provide some tangible consequences.

Section Two: Presentations- prep and delivery. For half the sessions this will be independent time in the class or in the library (or the cafe, I don’t really care). They will be doing group presentations and since there is no wiggle room for them getting together, I will provide that time in class. Plus they can then ask me for any input or help. The second half of the sessions will use this time block to, well, present their presentations.

Section Three: Guided activity of some kind (this I’m mapping out in full today). I already have four of these sections done, and they include specific guided questions about the texts due that week, a theoretical approach, a key concept for the study of literature/children’s literature. I have five left to prep and I think I’ll try to find a few good articles for a couple of these. Hand out the article before the break, give them time to read it with their coffee, and then come back and discuss the significance.

Section Four: The carrot and the stick. Or something like that. Each Friday is test time. Three weeks, three tests. The first two are midterms and they’ll have an hour, and the last one is the final and I’ll give them 90 minutes. For what it is worth, this pretty much works out to be how long the final usually lasts in a regular course. It just breaks it up for them (studying) and for me (marking each weekend rather than a huge wack at the end). At this point the plan is to use section four on the non-test-days as a movie time. I think we’ll watch Harry Potter and The Dark Crystal. Or at least watch significant clips of them with time for discussion (I’ll select clips that tie with my discussion that day). Potter is good for the last week as we’re reading The Golden Compass so we can do all the magic stuff. Dark Crystal is good for week two because we’re doing Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH and both have elements of Heroes, Quests, etc.

Now, if I can just get this all mapped out today, finish my sketches of the midterms and final, and firm up my lectures/activities… hopefully by Monday since I start teaching on Tuesday.

Our books are: The Paper Bag Princess, Where the Wild Things Are, Mrs. Frisby, Charlotte’s Web, Anne of Green Gables, and The Golden Compass. The four groups will present on the four novels. I’ll also do lectures on Myths, Fairy Tales, Fables, and Nursery Rhymes.

Class work includes the three exams, presentations, short paper to go with presentation, and 10% for showing up and talking.

Almost sounds like I know what I’m doing, eh?

What this Entry Isn’t About

May 8th, 2008

Here are the things I’m not going to write about in today’s entry:

Latest photos of our place.  Cord for camera uploading is upstairs, I’m on the main floor, I’m lazy.

Latest pregnancy photo of me. See above.  I missed 34 weeks, but got one today for 35 weeks. Close enough.

That I’m feeling better. Booooooring. But thank you for all the hugs and kind words. That’s not boring.

That I’m prepping like a mofo for classes next week.  Three week course. Three days a week. From 8:30am-2:20pm. Again with the boring.

That the unpacking is going well. That post goes better with the pictures.

That I seem to be getting over my cold. I don’t want to jinx it.

That my birthday is next week. I have no idea what to ask for and I have never had that problem in the past. Weirest thing ever.

Ergo, this post is about not much at all.  Nope. That’s it, actually.

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